I can want to have sex without necessarily wanting to have an orgasm
I sometimes have sex without necessarily being in the mood for it
Yup, I can have sex purely because I like making my partner happy
I can start from nowhere - and maybe I'll start feeling something along the way
I need to be in the mood a bit, but I can start with a spark and see if it turns into a flame
I need to be definitely interested before I'll engage in sex
If I'm not absolutely gagging for it then I won't start anything
If I'm in the mood and my partner isn't...
then I'm happy for them to do things for me, if they're up for it
I'd be uncomfortable if the action was all in my direction
Do not occur in my relationship
Are absolutely not an issue. It's not like sex isn't messy anyway!
Are a bit distracting, but we cope
Context: This discussion.
I've made the poll as anonymous as possible, in order to make people (and their partners) more comfortable with answering it.